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How I Achieved The MIDDLE SPLITS As An Adult Male!

August 23rd 2019 was the day I experienced the surreal sensation of sitting in the front splits with my back thigh and front hamstring sitting flush with the ground, for the first time in my life. I’d got the front splits, a goal of mine since the beginning of 2019.

The significance of the day was strong as my birthday is the 24th of August. It was almost like a gift to myself, but a meaningful gift. The feeling of personal achievement was awesome and has never left my memory. So much so that even from that day on, I fantasised about what I could do this year.

Back then, one whole year ago now, I still thought about how cool it would be to have a similar story with the side splits! I was far away then and I know all too well how long genuine mobility adaptations take………so a year seemed sensible and fitting.

As is common, I lost sight of mobility goals for a while – pretty much for the whole of the winter season – as I just didn’t want to work on these moves in busy gyms. I have always enjoyed being outdoors when it comes to working on mobility.

Nevertheless, my overall lower body mobility never declined all that much, thankfully. And come the end of winter/start of spring, I was forced outdoors thanks to the current worldwide pandemic situation, which suited me fine as I’ve got a rich history with outdoor training.

And as I documented in my post on getting flat on both sides in the front split, I’d added in mobility work to compliment the calisthenics orientated lower body moves I was doing. Gradually the side split was becoming more of the focus and more realistic as the weeks of training it accumulated.

Methods – approach, frequency & rate of progress

For the entirety of my resurrected (volume 2/2020 edition) mobility journey I worked on various mobility drills every 5th day. On some incredibly extreme and weird occasions I might have gone 6 days between lower body sessions, but every 5th day was a rock solid overall average.

Doing so allows full recovery which in turn allows you to use enough intensity within the exercises designed to improve the middle split.

As regular readers will know, I don’t care very much for pure passive stretching so accordingly, the only real passive work I did on the middle split itself was a 2 minute hold AFTER the main strength work for the lower body was complete (single leg jumps, weighted pistols, Nordic curls etc etc).

For a while I used PNF with the classic, 10 sec relax, 10 sec contract approach. Then after 12 weeks plus of this, I switched it up to a more repetition based approach. While the PNF worked well initially, I found past a certain point it became very erratic; some days were easy and range was there, other days I was just stuck at a resting level and wouldn’t budge.

Real world comparisons of the 2 methods –

PNF approach…….

2 x PNF sets (3 x 10 sec relax, 10 sec contract + 30 sec relax into new range) on the butterfly/’Tailor’s pose’

2-3 x PNF sets (exact protocol as above) on the pancake

3 x PNF sets (again, same protocol as the first 2) on the middle split itself

The more recent REP BASED approach…….

A1) Tailor’s Pose/Butterfly x 5-8 reps (5 sec active bottom contraction on each rep)

A2) Horse Stance Hold/Reps x 30-90 sec/ 10 reps (3 sec active pause at bottom of each rep & 10 sec hold on last rep)

A3) Pancake Good Morning x 10 reps + 10 sec active hold on last rep

Repeat for 3 rounds.

Sometimes on the horse squat work I would slide out to a middle split after the last rep and hold. And I varied between long holds in the squat and reps with weight. Needless to say, the holds are far more mentally torturing than the reps.

Rate of progress?

I found the middle split to be a bit more steady and slow than the front split. With the front split I found it would vary pretty widely. Some days I would get flat from nowhere and other days I’d be nowhere near touch down. Whereas with the middle split I didn’t notice any wild swings outside of an expected bell curve.

There were 2 moments that stand out in memory as milestones, if you will. One was when I managed to get my thighs to the parallette as you can see below……….

Which is still a good 5 inches away from the coveted ‘balls-to-floor’ landing. Prior to this I’d only ever really managed to hang out in the 6-8 inches from touchdown neighborhood.

The other time was of course, as the sun slipped below the horizon on the evening of the August 23rd 2020. This time I worked my way down to flat for a few seconds! The discomfort was far greater than the front splits as even with my poker face, I couldn’t pose.

First the calves touch the floor which is surreal in itself, then the thighs start touching and that’s when you know shit has just got real.

Raw & uncut action shot of touchdown as the daylight faded!

Interestingly, the commonality between the 2 events was the method that led me to getting new ranges each time aka my secret weapon………

Credit goes to the genius himself, Mr Emmet Louis, for this movement. It’s essentially a side split entry from a horse stance/squat. You use the horse squat to set the hip mechanics in place, then slide the legs out to your best split. The idea is not to go crazy long on the eventual hold but more to repeat the sensation of pulling the legs apart and feeling the side split position.

Tom Merrick shows the side split entry I used to achieve record depth on my middle split attempts, courtesy of his Instagram (@thebodyweightwarrior)

I used this at the end of the tri-sets I outlined earlier for anywhere up to 10 or so repeats. And it came with great success! It bought me range I’d never accessed before on both occasions – and pretty drastically.

The psychology

The side splits are iconic thanks to the likes of Van Damme and with that often comes limiting self beliefs. Kit Laughlin talks a lot about the difference between those who can do the middle splits and those who can’t being simple recognition of the position and sheer fear of such a position.

Jean-Claude Van Damme does the splits between two Volvo trucks - and it's  spectacular. | Van damme, Jean claude van damme, Volvo trucks
Action shot from the viral Volvo Trucks advert featuring Jean-Claude Van Damme

Obviously it’s not as cut and dry as that but many of you will believe the position is flat out impossible for you, unless you were a gymnast in your youth or are ‘naturally flexible’.

I won’t bore you with my story again but as you can read in my front splits posts, I was never ever naturally flexible and I’m not even pliable to any real degree anywhere. If you lay me on a physio table and push me into passive stretches you’ll be met with more muscle tone than the average person for sure.

This is why there’s so much time involved for an endeavor such as this. You need to have very good muscle control and experience with stretching generally before having any real shot at pulling such a feat off. All the months of glute and hip drills armed me with a rock solid mind muscle connection with the glutes and AB/AD-ductors.

Controlling your breath and not panicking is key here too, as unless your flexibility is god like, you’ll have to tune into the right sensations of what your legs and muscles should be doing. For me it was consciously allowing my pelvis to drop while actively pulling my legs apart with the glutes, while trying to maintain an anterior tilt at the pelvis.

Then it’s a game of ’embracing the suck’ as Tom Merrick says. It really depends how you’re wired, too. I’ve always been quite psychotic in that regard and love being backed into a corner – even if in my own head and thoughts. The ‘deadline’ brought the best out in me and I patiently pushed further and further, but I was also at peace with the idea of not getting it.

That calm and indifferent state of mind is crucial.

A middle split success breakdown

While there are a plethora of possible roadblocks to the middle splits, I’ll do my best to simplify things into 3 general categories based off my experience.

1. Short adductor length

This is essentially your tailor’s pose/butterfly range. It’s generally a decent prerequisite to proper side split training. As I flattened mine out I did find the split not only became deeper but easier to access and hold for longer. That said, I wasn’t blessed with a naturally good butterfly compared to some, and still managed a pretty low middle split without addressing this restriction.

Tailor pose (badhakonasana) using the wall - YouTube
Action shot from the legendary Kit Laughlin’s YouTube video on Tailor’s Pose

This pose displays the mobility/looseness of your short adductors – right up close to the groin. I’ll spare you all the anatomy this time!

2. Closing side of the joint/glute medius/ABduction strength

In order for your legs to be fully apart as they need to be in a side split, the hip AB-ductors have to be able to maximally shorten/contract. Otherwise you’ll just experience an unbearable cramping where the limitation will shift from the length of the AD-ductors to the strength of your AB-ductors – namely the glute medius.

This is where diligence in all the aforementioned drills really pays off. The contractions of the glutes and the active conscious intent to PULL THE LEGS APART really makes or breaks it.

A great drill for this is the ‘pissing dog’ as coined by Emmet Louis once again. Which is essentially an advanced spin on the classic quadruped bent knee hip abduction exercise; only with this one you’re keeping the leg STRAIGHT.

(This video from Tom Merrick’s channel offers a visual representation of the ‘pissing dog’ – skip to 4:12!)

I used this on the day of my touchdown as I began experiencing that very same sensation………being limited by my glutes’ ability to shorten. Some 10 sec active contractions here made all the difference as you can literally carry the sensation straight over to the middle split itself!

3. Long adductor length

This section encompasses all moves and stretches involving a straight leg and focuses less on the short adductors near the groin, and more on the adductors themselves, spanning the whole thigh.

What’s interesting here is you’ll see people with amazing butterfly mobility but they’ll still be a good way from the split itself. This is a pretty good diagnosis that the long addcutors need more work or focus.

This was an area I was always naturally decent in. I could abduct my leg (or legs) out pretty far, especially with a push while having them straight but the same cannot be said for the seated bent knee versions (tailor’s pose/butterfly). So it’s worth using these 3 as a rough assessment. Quite often one will be lacking compared to the other. It’s not uncommon for the activation of the glute medius to be the limiting factor for many.

So, what’s next?!

I’ve been asked this quite a bit on Instagram since sharing my moment of success. Obviously I’ve only touched down once in my life so before getting cute with grandiose ambitions, I think it’s wise to simply solidify and improve the consistency within the pose itself.

I will keep training the move as if I haven’t got the move because realistically, I can’t wholeheartedly claim it when I’ve done it once. Although it was still an amazing moment.

I would love to make my middle split like my front split; basically be able to hit it on a decent day with a general warm up. That would make me plenty content over the next few months. Then after that maybe I’ll play with some nice active stunts/drills, subject to how strong I can become in the position. Although for now, JujiMufu and Van Damme have nothing to worry about!

Overhead Barbell Splits - YouTube
Beast mode middle splits – Jujimufu!

What will be next year’s pre birthday milestone? Well I’ll be 30 then so it will be just that, a milestone. The idea I have now is to be able to do a clean 90 degree handstand push up, which for me is like moving mountains as anyone who knows me knows I’m naturally very poor with overhead strength.

Thanks so much for reading and I hope this inspires you to push for things that may seem completely out of reach right now………

Visualise, plan, execute and stay consistent. Let the rest happen.

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6 thoughts on “How I Achieved The MIDDLE SPLITS As An Adult Male! Leave a comment

  1. Great post, thanks for sharing your experience with this move. I’ve been chasing my pancake more seriously the past few months and have a lot more respect for the ad/abductors now. And also learning to cope with that “groin about to snap off” feeling… still a long way off from chest-to-floor but these are some great tips on strengthening the relevant muscles. Other than spending time in the position itself, would you train/emphasize anything differently if your goal was the C2F pancake rather than the proper middle split?

    • Hey Kurt, great to hear from you, buddy 🙂 Hope everything’s good your end?

      Great question. So generally I’d approach it differently as the 2 moves aren’t as synonymous as people sometimes think! Usually it’s hamstring limitations for pancake, in my experience. Unless we’re talking about someone who couldn’t abduct their legs to the same approximate width as their arm span.

      My new favourite for the pancake is the (lightly) loaded pancake good morning. You can do it standing, seated but with the hips elevated or fully seated but I don’t think the full seated version is worth using until you can hinge forward at hips around 45-60 degrees or so.

      I used sets of 10 with a 10-30 second ACTIVE hold at the end where I was squeezing the hell out of my quads and hip flexors! Whilst doing this I was actively trying to stick my butt out/twerk to lengthen the spine and hopefully flatten the lower back.

      That would be my go to for sure. I’d also look for any discrepancies between your pike and pancake folds – is one markedly better than the other? Because if so, one might be holding the other back, whereas if they’re both similar, you know you just need more general range across the board.

      If any of that makes sense?

      • Doing well all things considered! Hope you are as well. Appreciate the advice on the pancake. I actually just started experimenting with the seated pancake good morning (@learningtohuman had a great IG post on this recently). I’ve been using the seated/unweighted/bent leg variation to start, just trying to get a feel for the anterior pelvic rotation needed to get my chest to parallel. I’ve come to realize that my hip mobility is garbage so I’m trying to take these progressions slowly so I don’t tear up my adductors or flexors.

        I like the pancake GM active hold sequence you suggested — couple questions on that: how frequently would you train that sequence during a week? I’m really motivated to progress my pancake but I don’t want to overdo it. Also, in the fully seated version, I can get my chest comfortably parallel with legs bent, but straightening my legs really diminishes my hip hinge range. Would you prioritize reps/holds in the chest flat with bent legs position (aiming to straighten legs over time), or rather straight legs with chest as deep as I can get it (aiming to hinge lower over time)?

        Also a good point on the relationship with pike. I’d say on most days my pike is better than my pancake, although it’s nothing stellar. If I’m really warm I can get a decent hold on my ankles with a strict flat back. Honestly the pike is another story altogether. I’ve only recently learned to cue anterior pelvic tilt in that position and it’s made me realize how tight my lower back and upper hamstrings truly are. No shortage of things to work on 🙂

      • I’ve seen the post you mean! Must say I’ haven’t personally ever tried the bent leg seated pancake good morning but I know it’s highly used and respected in the sports world, too! I will make sure I have a play around with it, I can see it complimenting the straight leg pancake good morning incredibly well!

        I’ve been working loaded/active lower body mobility every 5th day for months and months and it seems to work well. I haven’t tried to push that to say twice per week though, although I’m looking to separate front split and side split work going forward. I reckon try it once per week (heavy) and maybe add in some ‘limbering’, as Kit Laughlin calls it; softer stretches that keep the ranges of motion fresh in the CNS’ memory. So I would keep prioritizing the hinging of the hips with bent legs but also do some full pancake good mornings STANDING, so you’ve got gravity’s assistance. You should find it’s a more friendly vector for range. Once your hinge improves here with straight legs alongside the seated bent legs version, I’d progress to seated on a box/step/bench etc!

        Ah nice, thought I’d check as sometimes it can be a huge difference between the two! Sounds like yours is roughly aligned ok though. You might also want to see how good (or bad) your hip flexor strength is – can you do seated pike compressions ok? And how close to 90 degrees can you lift each leg when standing and not leaning back, while also keeping the leg straight? Sometimes just improving hip flexor function/activation you can see some nice gains in pike folding, pancake etc etc….

  2. This is a great post. Normally you only see limber teenage girls giving advice on this, and they have no idea what an adult male without a gymnastics background is up against 🙂
    I don’t know if the other commenter is still working on the pancake. My best progress has been with the cable version which pulls you into position rather than pushing you down. I’m getting close on that one and think I might be strong and flexible enough to start working on middle splits when I get it. I’m 43 so things are progressing slowly and the main point is to avoid injuries, not to get them

    • Hey Danni, thanks for commenting. Absolutely, it’s a night and day difference comparing a stiff adult male with no flexibility background to a female ex-gymnast who’s always been flexible!

      That sounds like an awesome move for the pancake and I can’t say I’ve ever seen/heard of it! Do you know if there’s a link to it anywhere? I’ll do some digging in the meantime!

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